DATY

n. dining at the Y; cunnilingus. Subjects: English, Sex & Sexuality, Slang, Acronym

Editorial Note: The use of DATY seems to be closely associated with sex workers and sex work. According to Jonathon Green’s Cassell’s Dictionary of Slang (1998), the expression dine at the Y dates to at least as early as the 1940s and refers to “the conjunction of the thighs, plus a pun on the YMCA/YWCA.” Eric Partridge’s Dictionary of Slang and Unconventional English (Macmillan 1984, 8th edition, edited by Paul Beale), marks the term as Australian, though it is clearly now present in other Anglophone countries. Variants include eat at the Y, lunch at the Y, and love at the Y.

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Citations: 2000 [terbescortreviews] Usenet: alt.sex.prostitution (Aug. 26) “Review of Misstress Taylor (Independent Escort) in Toronto”: Her oral skills were great….For those interested in the details (kissing, daty, etc), you can email me offline. 2000 [Hipster Doofus)] Usenet: alt.sex.prostitution (Sept. 12) “Re: What does DATY mean?”: Dining At The “Y” = Cunnilingus. 2003 [ravencroft] Montreal Escort Review Board (Oct. 2) “Veronica @ ZZCream”: The only reason I did DATY is because she was an exceptional lady and I really wanted her to have as good a time as I did (I’ve only done DATY on 2 SPs during my 3 years of hobbying). 2005 [Dausa] Diary of An Unrepentant Sex Addict (Campbell, California) (Mar. 3) “Pitching That Final Bitch”: Permitting the man to go down on the woman (DATY, for “Dining At The Y"). 2005 [Chicago62] @ Singapore InternationalSexGuide (Mar. 7) “Geyland Street Girls”: I asked her if I could DATY she say yes so we got into a 69 postion with her on top.

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